Continuing with the story of Tobin Sorenson from the previous post. I met Tobin in 1978 when he was at the pinnacle of his climbing career. Several things impressed me immediately. He rarely talked about his climbing unless asked. He had a look in his brilliant blue eyes that spoke of passion, focus, and commitment. …
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On Living the Adventure
Tobin Sorenson (June 15, 1955 - October 5, 1980) was an American rock climber famed for bold first ascents on Yosemite big walls, in the Alps, Canadian Rockies, and New Zealand. He is considered by some the best all-around climber of his time. A member of an informal group called the Stonemasters, Sorenson pushed risk …
Christmas Every Day
He had fallen and landed on a ledge. He needed help. I had a group of student climbers out on the rock for an all-day class on leading and anchors. I could see another party on the rock to my left. One of their members was laying on a ledge a little way down from …
On Someone to Love You
How difficult would it be to never be loved? Listen to the ache of being unloved in these excerpts from a poem, “I Just Want Someone to Love Me,” by a writer named Samantha. What am I doing wrong I just want someone to be there To tell me that they love me To tell …
On Close Friendship
Think back: who has been your closest and most enjoyable friend? Close friendships, those that cross over into the realm if intimate friendships, are vital to our well-being. In the first of three blog posts on relating and relationships, I covered the research on why these relationships are vital to us. Having that friend with …
On Scarcity and Abundance
You have no idea how difficult it really is right now! Oh the times have I felt this way. I am certain you have felt it, too. Pressures mount. Friends pull away. Stress leads to health problems. Money gets tight, really tight. People who should behave better go on the attack. We see our world …
On Overflowing
Overflowing with thankfulness. There is a curious phrase for you. How many of us feel like we are overflowing with thankfulness most of the time? So many people live their lives without much thankfulness at all, for anything. Yet if we have life, we have much for which to be thankful. Every day we are …
On Gratitude
Gratitude is a gift to the one who chooses it. Sadly, so few choose it. Research is showing us that there is one oft-overlooked choice we can make that can have a significant positive impact on our health and well-being. That one choice is gratitude. According to research from the University of California, gratitude can …
On Relating and Relationship, Part 3
Why would the man do that? Maximillian Kolbe, catholic priest and Polish prisoner at the Auschwitz death camp, is remembered for his voluntary death in the place of a fellow prisoner, a man he did not know. Kolbe had sheltered many from the harsh treatment of the Nazis, and had helped more than 2000 Jews …
On Relating and Relationship, Part 2
Why are most popular stories in books, movies, television and songs focused on relationships? And why do these stories resonate so strongly with us that we spend millions-make that billions- of dollars on pursuing them? Even in stories primarily about events we find ourselves drawn to the interplay between characters small and large. The history …
